The divorced lover is still in love with her husband
He and she each have an unhappy marriage.
He hoped that they would divorce each other and form a happy family.
However, he and his wife have been separated for almost two years, but her attitude has been unclear.
The more he waited, the more frustrated, the more he waited, the more confused.
Ji Qiang (pseudonym) has thick eyebrows and sportswear, which is very eye-catching.
Ji Qiang said that he had arrived an hour early and had been waiting in the car, not wanting to disrupt my normal work schedule.
During the interview, Ji Qiang was always polite and took care of the reporter’s feelings.
Maybe his experience will be inconceivable to many people, but I think if he can solve the current problem, maybe he can bid farewell to the embarrassing status quo and greet a truly happy marriage life.
As I write this, I can’t help but think of a text message from a foreign man I received a few days ago: Life is short and grateful, and happiness should guide us through every day.
Any future of Qiangqiang will become something, and I hope he can share this message to make his life happier.
For the sake of filial piety but sacrificing the happiness of a lifetime, when I was young, I talked about a girlfriend, which was my first love, and loved it very much.
Because my mother didn’t like her, we had already talked about marriage and had to break up.
After breaking up, my mother urged me to get married every day, and I said to my mother, “I have no idea. You can take care of it.
“Mom said,” What about mom introducing you to a girl? ”
Work is stable, family environment is good, and people are gentle and kind.
I said, “Okay, just marry her.”
“After a month, I didn’t even see what Shulan (pseudonym) looked like, so I married her.
Mom is very happy, but I have a feeling that my life is over.
On the wedding night, other men couldn’t sleep happily, and I looked at the ceiling and spent a night’s sleep.
I miss my girlfriend who has broken up. I just want to run away as soon as I get married.
This marriage has reached filial piety, but it sacrificed my life’s happiness.
I have nothing to say with Shulan. After marriage, Shulan is not what my mother imagined at all.
Shulan’s mouth was so sweet that she coaxed my mother into blooming flowers before marriage.
After marriage, she does nothing and I do all the housework alone.
I felt like I was in a trap, a woman’s marriage trap.
Such a marriage allows me to live like the years. In the presence of relatives and friends, I have to pretend to be happy and give my mother a face.
The appearance of Naruto (a pseudonym), a ray of sunshine on a real spring day, shines into my dim cellar-like life. How can I resist?
I am not qualified to pursue the cute girl Naruto (pseudonym) is my sister-in-law’s friend, but I have never met her.
One day 5 years ago, I went to find a sister-in-law for a business. The sister-in-law was just absent. Naruto received me.
The first time I saw Naruto, I really liked her.
Although she was married, she looked like a child, her eyes were very clear and simple.
After the business was done, I reluctantly said goodbye to Naruto.
I know I’m married, and I’m not qualified to pursue a lovely girl, not to mention that Ming Ye is also married, it is even more impossible for us.
But since that time, I always thought about Naruto.
Even if I can’t pursue her, we should be friends who can talk, shouldn’t we break the law?
I called up her courage and called her, and we talked briefly on the phone.
I feel that Naruto doesn’t hate me, and I feel very happy.
Since then, we have often started talking on the phone.Naruto’s husband is very busy, and sometimes he is not at home all night.
Occasionally I work overtime in the unit, and chatting with Mingye for one night.
Mingye often said on the phone that her husband was not good for her and was very attentive. She had a lot of good friends outside. She was so angry that she wanted to find a lover and get inner balance.
I advised her that you don’t have to look for it, now there are more scammers outside.
Seeing that I was so anxious, Ming Ye said with a smile: I was joking.
I just feel relieved.
One day, Naruto told me that in the evening she was going to talk to a boss about business.
The man always looked weird at her, and she felt a little hairy.
I said, take a companion and don’t drink other people’s drinks.
Later, I was still worried. I drove Naruto and my companion to KTV and waited outside the private room.
Sure enough, after 10 minutes, Naruto was protecting her chest and ran out, an obscene man chasing behind him.
“what are you doing!
“I opened my eyes and stood in front of Naruto. The other person looked at me and was arrogant, and scolded him away.
That night, Naruto was with me.
The previous years have turned white. Naruto made me realize the attraction and charm from women like never before.
With Mingye, I realized that this is the real life, the years of the arrow have passed.
I have chronic pharyngitis and my wife never knew to care about me.
But Ming Ye collected herbs everywhere and brought them to me.
One day, Ming Ye sighed deeply and said to me, “I have a very serious gynecological disease.
“She suspected it was brought to her by her husband.
The next day, Mingye stayed with a colleague in the lobby downstairs of a hotel, and watched her husband hold a girl together and get down together.
Looking at Ming Ye so sad, I said: Since our marriages have already existed in name, it would be better for us to divorce and get married again.
I will accompany you to take care of your illness, and I will not touch you until you recover.
Naruto promised me happily.
I separated from my wife when I went back that day.
Now that my heart belongs to Naruto, I don’t think I can betray her physically.
However, what happened earlier this year made me completely stupid.
At that time, Ming Ye’s mouth ulcer had been ulcerated for more than a month and it was not good. I accompanied her to the hospital for treatment.
It is known that Mingye has a disease, which can only be transmitted through the lives of husband and wife.
Mingye went home and asked her husband, and the other party acknowledged that he had already had the disease.
However, Ming Ye kept telling me that since she was with me, she and her husband have not been together.
Is she lying to me?
In the end, Naruto admitted to me that she and her husband have always been in physical contact.
Although my relationship with Naruto is not right, when I heard such words, I felt betrayed and deceived.
She made excuses for her weakness, even though Naruto lied to me, I soon forgave her.
I found that I couldn’t do without her.
My feelings for Naruto are definitely not physical needs. I love her from the heart.
We haven’t touched her physically since she got sick, but my feelings for her haven’t diminished at all.
But then she began to regret it and was unwilling to file a divorce, which I couldn’t understand.
I asked a female friend, “Does a woman tolerate her husband spending outside?”As long as he doesn’t mention divorce, he is a good husband.
Female friends are very firm: “Of course not.
“I said to Ji Qiang,” For your wife, don’t you spend it outside too? ”
Ji Qiang answered nervously: “That’s different. I’m not a flower. I’m absolutely serious about Naruto.
“In order to wait for Ming Ye, my wife and I have been separated for almost 2 years.
However, Naruto never gave me a clear attitude.
In fact, economically, she can’t be her husband.
If Ming Ye didn’t want to be with me, she would say straight away. Anyway, it also made me die, but she just didn’t give me a positive veto.
”Did you move out of the house?
“I asked Ji Qiang.
”Ah, no, we all sleep in the same room.
“Why not just go through the divorce formalities? In fact, you are actually dragging down Shulan.
“” Naruto doesn’t give me an attitude, how can I divorce? ”
Ki Keung was very wronged.
Later, I heard from the side that Mingye ‘s husband was so motivated that the Mingye family also knew.
However, neither of them wants Naruto to divorce, and hopes she will bear it for her children.
Mingye ‘s mother even said: As long as I’m here, don’t divorce, I can’t afford to lose this person.
My husband Naha also said: Is it necessary to divorce for this matter?
In fact, I think these are all excuses for Ming Ye’s cowardice, the feelings are gone, and this marriage is immoral.
”Maybe, Nai Ye still loves her husband?
“”I do not know.
“Ji Qiang’s voice went down.
One day, I saw Naruto and her husband shopping in the street.
Mingye clutched the big bag with her hand, her husband put his hands in his pants pockets, and walked nicely.
Later, when I accompanied Ming Ye to see a doctor, I told her: I can’t wait for your life like this, you have to give me a statement.
Mingye said: The men in the world are the same, and they won’t be cherished.
Even if I leave and marry you again, it will not have the same ending.
I said: It’s unfair to me to say so.
In order to be with Mingye, I put all my savings in the stock market this year, hoping to make enough 200,000, then pay the down payment and buy a house for me and Mingye.
It was a pity that the money was lost again later.
I’m getting confused now. I know I’m sorry for Shu Lan. Although I don’t love her, she hasn’t betrayed me after all.
However, our marriage has long been unnecessary.
And Ming Ye, what does she think, does she not want to be happy?
For whom to divorce?
Marriage cannot be reluctant, nor can divorce be reluctant.
Perhaps at first, Naruto was thinking of divorce.
But then she changed her mind.
Maybe Naruto is too important for Ji Qiang, so he cannot accept this change.
The beginning of Naruto and Jiqiang was not in line with the rules. Now Naruto is reluctant to leave the family, indicating that she has a choice.
Now, Jiqiang should consider the choice of Mingye, rather than pondering why she chose this way. Naruto does not give Jiqiang a clear attitude, in fact this already represents an attitude.
Ji Qiang, must be brave to accept the reality and face it: Ming Ye is not willing to divorce and marry you again.
If Jiqiang is willing to return to his family, he should cherish his family.
If you feel that your life is too long, end your marriage, give yourself freedom, and give your wife the power to choose a new life.
Divorce is by no means for whom to divorce, but to divorce yourself.